The creation of this site came about as a result of an idea I had about putting a book together. I am writing a book called “Sell like a woman” which I want to publish in 2011. My aim in writing this book is to highlight the key qualities, approaches and attitudes displayed and used by successful sales women.
To make the book real, accessible and relevant to readers I wanted to profile real women and their stories and then coordinate the findings with the relevant research and see what we come up with. This is so it will not be some ‘technical’ book but a ‘living, inspiring’ book which also happens to be supported scientifically – no tricks or secrets here. I have interviewed over 30 women so far and hope to get around 50 successful sales women to profile here in Australia. (If you would like to recommend anyone let me know asap)
There is an increasing body of research overseas showing that woman are often often outperforming men when it comes to achieving real and sustainable results in sales and effective sustainable client relationships.
As you can understand I would not want to create controversy for controversy’s sake, however, here in Australia the feedback and support for this site and the book has been overwhelming.
The book and this site is not about denigrating men nor is it a feminist manifesto, it is really about drilling down into what makes people successful is sales today.
I want to challenge the way we think about selling and demystify some myths along the way. And perhaps, every now and then, highlight the qualities women bring to the world of business and in particular sales and see what lessons can be learned – for men and women alike.
One of my colleagues and friend is a specialist consultant in Retail, Debra Templer, Australian Retail Services and has written a book on ‘What Women Want: How to Market to Women‘
Her research shows that in Australia at least over 85% of all retail buying decisions are made by women (directly or indirectly). She also confronts the often aggressive manner in which some men try to sell to women and how this just doesn’t work and never really has – so they are losing sales they could otherwise have made if they had chosen a different approach.
Also in a business space where a new product has only 6 months at best to trade on its ‘unique’ features before it is replicated how do we keep selling value? As you said in your book – you sell on substantial relationships based on trust, transparency and doing what you said you would do, etc.
So I hope you can understand that I am working for the good of all and whilst the title might raise an eyebrow or two you must admit people will take notice – all I would like is for people to read the detail and then make up their own mind based on fact not effect.
If it helps I have two young sons so it is not in my interest to go about male bashing.